Meanwhile in cross stitch land
Jun. 7th, 2025 04:03 pmAs it was written in the spreadsheets, so it has come to pass.
New project: Upon A Star by PigeonCoop Designs from the book Cross Stitch In The Forest.
Have I learned my lesson about dark Aida, many similar shades of one colour, and fractional stitches? No. Have I learned to check HOW MUCH of each shade I'll need when using threads from my stash? Also no.
Floss toss to confirm I still like the colors:

The first few stitches.

First project to clear off the backlog: 1960s mod lady for the cover of my sewing notebook. There will be text "Sewing Notes" vertically in the blank area on the right. I did the French knots for the eyes a while ago and they have gone horribly wrong - the knots have both pulled through to the back! Lesson learned, don't do french knots as part of a tour of traveling backstitch. I am just going to do new knots over the top of them.

Bonus, I found the missing small Permin kit tucked away in the folder with the mod fashion lady! I guess this was my emergency backup stitching when we moved. Way to go, Past Diane! You put it in a safe place all right.

New project: Upon A Star by PigeonCoop Designs from the book Cross Stitch In The Forest.
Have I learned my lesson about dark Aida, many similar shades of one colour, and fractional stitches? No. Have I learned to check HOW MUCH of each shade I'll need when using threads from my stash? Also no.
Floss toss to confirm I still like the colors:

The first few stitches.

First project to clear off the backlog: 1960s mod lady for the cover of my sewing notebook. There will be text "Sewing Notes" vertically in the blank area on the right. I did the French knots for the eyes a while ago and they have gone horribly wrong - the knots have both pulled through to the back! Lesson learned, don't do french knots as part of a tour of traveling backstitch. I am just going to do new knots over the top of them.

Bonus, I found the missing small Permin kit tucked away in the folder with the mod fashion lady! I guess this was my emergency backup stitching when we moved. Way to go, Past Diane! You put it in a safe place all right.

Deer Trail is finished!
Jun. 1st, 2025 04:23 pm
Pattern is from the book Cross Stitch In The Forest. I foolishly thought, “This is just 4 colors! It should be simple. And I can use threads from my stash!”
Dear reader, it was not so. One 123stitch order for DMC 988 and more 989, hours of eyestrain from working on dark fabric, and about a billion three-quarter stitches later, I can confidently state that I HAVE NOT LEARNED A THING and intend to start Upon A Star (the one with the wolf and the moon) pretty much any second now.
Here's a brand new sentence
May. 28th, 2025 07:45 pmI just made a spreadsheet of all of my cross stitch works in progress that I can think of, and sorted them by "joy quotient" and then by effort remaining. Ta dahh! I have prioritized my backlog.
I gave each WIP two numbers from 1-10: How satisfying would it be to finish this (higher number is good), and how much effort remains (lower number is good). "Joy quotient" is satisfaction divided by effort.
I should probably do something similar with my spreadsheet of planned projects, although "planned" is really too strong a word. Yes, I have separate sheets for kits and charts. No, I have not catalogued every chart I own (we would be here until the heat death of the universe and probably also crash Excel); just the ones I have formed some vague intention of doing and/or have purchased materials for.
Parting thought, any kits I bought before about 1995 should almost certainly get yeeted. (Yotted? Yeeten?)
Edited to add: I did this for my backlog of charts and it came out sorted perfectly by effort (easiest at the top of the list). Hahahahaha.
I made the list of kits from memory and I have a terrible feeling that in reality I have tons more than I think I do. This is already discounting things like the pile of beginner kits I bought to teach my coworkers at game night in 2020 (RIP).
Edit edit: Strictly speaking these are UFOs (UnFinished Objects) rather than true WIPs. My one actual work in progress is Deer Trail and that's nearly done.
I gave each WIP two numbers from 1-10: How satisfying would it be to finish this (higher number is good), and how much effort remains (lower number is good). "Joy quotient" is satisfaction divided by effort.
I should probably do something similar with my spreadsheet of planned projects, although "planned" is really too strong a word. Yes, I have separate sheets for kits and charts. No, I have not catalogued every chart I own (we would be here until the heat death of the universe and probably also crash Excel); just the ones I have formed some vague intention of doing and/or have purchased materials for.
Parting thought, any kits I bought before about 1995 should almost certainly get yeeted. (Yotted? Yeeten?)
Edited to add: I did this for my backlog of charts and it came out sorted perfectly by effort (easiest at the top of the list). Hahahahaha.
I made the list of kits from memory and I have a terrible feeling that in reality I have tons more than I think I do. This is already discounting things like the pile of beginner kits I bought to teach my coworkers at game night in 2020 (RIP).
Edit edit: Strictly speaking these are UFOs (UnFinished Objects) rather than true WIPs. My one actual work in progress is Deer Trail and that's nearly done.
A fun weekend
May. 19th, 2025 08:58 pmI got to drive with the sunroof open for the first time this year!!
Took Friday off, drove a few hours, did a ton of shopping, then went to the Celebration of Needlework. Did some stitching, hung out with an old friend and some new friends, got lots of walking and fresh air and good food. Oh and did more shopping. Because I need more projects!
Best of all, I have achieved PANTS.
Took Friday off, drove a few hours, did a ton of shopping, then went to the Celebration of Needlework. Did some stitching, hung out with an old friend and some new friends, got lots of walking and fresh air and good food. Oh and did more shopping. Because I need more projects!
Best of all, I have achieved PANTS.
Recent stitching
Dec. 8th, 2024 03:20 pmI got through all of the easy, light-colored stitching on the Halloween Mill Hill kit. Now it's a gothic nightmare of dark (everything) on black. I may end up putting it away until spring when there's more light.

Today I had a brainwave and realized that I could take these 3 finished Christmas Pusheen cross stitches and turn them into something suitable for hanging on the tree! For backing, I have some scrap fabric that is a lovely festive red. Unfortunately getting the sewing machine out is a hassle so (in my wisdom) I decided to try hand sewing. It's a bit of a slog. But I haven't drawn blood yet so I've got that going for me.



Today I had a brainwave and realized that I could take these 3 finished Christmas Pusheen cross stitches and turn them into something suitable for hanging on the tree! For backing, I have some scrap fabric that is a lovely festive red. Unfortunately getting the sewing machine out is a hassle so (in my wisdom) I decided to try hand sewing. It's a bit of a slog. But I haven't drawn blood yet so I've got that going for me.


Cross stitch progress
Oct. 19th, 2024 01:45 pmI got (most of) the purples done. I discovered some dark purple just below the bits I've finished. I also did quite a bit of nigh-indistinguishable pastels. Then I started doing dark brown on black and vowed never to complain about pastels again:

Now comes the black on black. There are some black stitches here, I swear there are. This is going to take a really long time.


Now comes the black on black. There are some black stitches here, I swear there are. This is going to take a really long time.

random what's up with me
Aug. 11th, 2024 10:55 amI am working on making some bullet journal layouts that are cheerful, functional, and dead simple to update once they're created. I got some stickers and some washi tape to aid in the effort.
I am occasionally pecking at a cross stitch project, currently the Mill Hill "Haunted Graveyard", now featuring TWO shades of purple!
I *should* be working on the memory quilt but my brain has been massively uncooperative for a couple of weeks now. Sigh. Luckily(?) Mom's life is just as disorganized as mine at the moment so there is no real time pressure to get it done before I go visit.
I survived the first week(*) of my job! I'm struggling (see above about brain). Hopefully I will get my groove on.
(*) 3 days. bad enough.
I was supposed to go to a concert. Found it was cancelled AFTER driving 3 hours. Went to Micro Center as a consolation prize; tried to set up my new PC and it is a dud and has to go back. It's a good thing I like driving. (If I keep telling myself that maybe I'll start to believe it.)
I am occasionally pecking at a cross stitch project, currently the Mill Hill "Haunted Graveyard", now featuring TWO shades of purple!
I *should* be working on the memory quilt but my brain has been massively uncooperative for a couple of weeks now. Sigh. Luckily(?) Mom's life is just as disorganized as mine at the moment so there is no real time pressure to get it done before I go visit.
I survived the first week(*) of my job! I'm struggling (see above about brain). Hopefully I will get my groove on.
(*) 3 days. bad enough.
I was supposed to go to a concert. Found it was cancelled AFTER driving 3 hours. Went to Micro Center as a consolation prize; tried to set up my new PC and it is a dud and has to go back. It's a good thing I like driving. (If I keep telling myself that maybe I'll start to believe it.)
Doing some reading and stitching
Sep. 5th, 2022 12:11 pmReading -
This Is How You Lose the Time War
Short, enjoyable. Beautiful and haunting. Highly recommend.
The Expanse
I'm up to book 5, Nemesis Games, and yes book 4 got better. (Nothing like a major plot device to bring people together!) Book 5 is good. This seems to line up more with what I remember of the plot from the TV series. So I'm dreading some of that. But it will be interesting to see how the plots diverge.
Stitching -
Cruising along on Fabulous Women in History. I've started row 3 (of 3!). I still do not love working on linen, although it looks so good when I stop. I'll do part of the border and 1 more woman, then I need to do some design work to incorporate the edits I'm making. (Sorry, Rosie the Riveter. You're not a real person...)
Then I'm going to take a break and do something relatively simple. Maybe the map of Norway I picked up on our 2018 cruise. (Heck, maybe the map of Alaska from the 2015 cruise, sigh.)
This Is How You Lose the Time War
Short, enjoyable. Beautiful and haunting. Highly recommend.
The Expanse
I'm up to book 5, Nemesis Games, and yes book 4 got better. (Nothing like a major plot device to bring people together!) Book 5 is good. This seems to line up more with what I remember of the plot from the TV series. So I'm dreading some of that. But it will be interesting to see how the plots diverge.
Stitching -
Cruising along on Fabulous Women in History. I've started row 3 (of 3!). I still do not love working on linen, although it looks so good when I stop. I'll do part of the border and 1 more woman, then I need to do some design work to incorporate the edits I'm making. (Sorry, Rosie the Riveter. You're not a real person...)
Then I'm going to take a break and do something relatively simple. Maybe the map of Norway I picked up on our 2018 cruise. (Heck, maybe the map of Alaska from the 2015 cruise, sigh.)
Reading, watching, stitching
May. 29th, 2022 06:19 pmPrefacing the reading and watching with "I don't know if it's the piece or if it's me, but..."
I finished the third Lady Astronaut book. The ending was reasonably satisfying. The first 10% I was very grumpy that she switched narrators from the first 2 books, to a character who I don't even like that much. The middle 80% I was basically waiting for something, ANYTHING, good to happen to these people. A lot of the events were just a little too on-the-nose with real life to be at all enjoyable. Oh well. I persevered! I'm glad I've read it, but I'm now in the mood for something lighter.
We've started watching season 4 of Stranger Things. 3 episodes in, it's not really doing much for me. There's nothing really novel going on, and the bits where The Kids Are In High School Now And Are Trying To Fit In are fucking excruciating. If Stuart wants to keep watching it I'll play along, but I'm finding it rather grim and joyless.
On the joyful and not-grim side of the aisle...
Stitching! Having finished Peeking Cats, my main criteria for what to do next were "smaller" and "absolutely no backstitch". Also, fuck fractionals on Aida.
I've started the third piece in a set, "Art Nouveau Seasons" by Sheila Hudson from the Christmas 2003 issue of Cross Stitcher magazine (UK). I've already done Winter and Summer and am now doing Spring. It's daffodils, and although I don't really care for yellow at all, I thought I'd get it out of the way so I can reward myself with Autumn which is grapes and thus has Many Purples in it. It's very soothing to be working on something blocky and less fiddly. I am not pleased with all of her color choices, as some of them are so close together as to be nearly indistinguishable, but the results are so pretty it's hard to argue. As a bonus, this gave me something simple to record some footage of. (It's surprisingly hard to video yourself cross stitching. Who knew?)
I'm sad that I didn't save more of Sheila Hudson's patterns. She passed away some years ago and I don't think her works have ever been collected and published. I have this set and a really nifty repeating-motif Oriental dragon in magenta and gold shades that I might do someday.
Sorry I'm so bad about posting photos here. I'll see what I can do.
I finished the third Lady Astronaut book. The ending was reasonably satisfying. The first 10% I was very grumpy that she switched narrators from the first 2 books, to a character who I don't even like that much. The middle 80% I was basically waiting for something, ANYTHING, good to happen to these people. A lot of the events were just a little too on-the-nose with real life to be at all enjoyable. Oh well. I persevered! I'm glad I've read it, but I'm now in the mood for something lighter.
We've started watching season 4 of Stranger Things. 3 episodes in, it's not really doing much for me. There's nothing really novel going on, and the bits where The Kids Are In High School Now And Are Trying To Fit In are fucking excruciating. If Stuart wants to keep watching it I'll play along, but I'm finding it rather grim and joyless.
On the joyful and not-grim side of the aisle...
Stitching! Having finished Peeking Cats, my main criteria for what to do next were "smaller" and "absolutely no backstitch". Also, fuck fractionals on Aida.
I've started the third piece in a set, "Art Nouveau Seasons" by Sheila Hudson from the Christmas 2003 issue of Cross Stitcher magazine (UK). I've already done Winter and Summer and am now doing Spring. It's daffodils, and although I don't really care for yellow at all, I thought I'd get it out of the way so I can reward myself with Autumn which is grapes and thus has Many Purples in it. It's very soothing to be working on something blocky and less fiddly. I am not pleased with all of her color choices, as some of them are so close together as to be nearly indistinguishable, but the results are so pretty it's hard to argue. As a bonus, this gave me something simple to record some footage of. (It's surprisingly hard to video yourself cross stitching. Who knew?)
I'm sad that I didn't save more of Sheila Hudson's patterns. She passed away some years ago and I don't think her works have ever been collected and published. I have this set and a really nifty repeating-motif Oriental dragon in magenta and gold shades that I might do someday.
Sorry I'm so bad about posting photos here. I'll see what I can do.
I'm on the internet!
May. 29th, 2022 06:16 pmMy workplace is doing a series of human-interest videos about employees and our hobbies. They featured me and my cross stitch obsession!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlNXT-yQHC8
I'm impressed they managed to make a video of me where I could stand watching the rough cuts. :D
On the other hand, this reminds me that I have an Instagram and I should post about 1000000000 things to it. Or any things, honestly.
On the other other hand, wow my craft room is a mess.
On the fourth hand (rapidly running out of hands), my crafting table is now clear because of this, so yay!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlNXT-yQHC8
I'm impressed they managed to make a video of me where I could stand watching the rough cuts. :D
On the other hand, this reminds me that I have an Instagram and I should post about 1000000000 things to it. Or any things, honestly.
On the other other hand, wow my craft room is a mess.
On the fourth hand (rapidly running out of hands), my crafting table is now clear because of this, so yay!
I finished a thing!
Jan. 22nd, 2022 06:10 pmPrefacing this with, I don't think I finished anything at all in 2021. So it is a joy and a relief to have finished a thing!
I got this birthday card in November and squeed audibly. It has the pattern inside! This is my first finish of 2022. Yes, I know, the pattern is actually different from what's shown on the front. It's still super cute.

Half an ass is better than none, so I banged it into a cheap-ass frame from Michaels and called it done.

I used all DMC Etoile threads for this. They're nicely sparkly and only moderately annoying to work with. The lovely tin of threads is descending into chaos.

The card is by Moonpig. I gather it's an online service. My husband's aunt and cousin in the UK have used it to send us cards in the US a few times. I'm tempted to see if they have more cute designs like this. Because I totally need more projects...
I got this birthday card in November and squeed audibly. It has the pattern inside! This is my first finish of 2022. Yes, I know, the pattern is actually different from what's shown on the front. It's still super cute.

Half an ass is better than none, so I banged it into a cheap-ass frame from Michaels and called it done.

I used all DMC Etoile threads for this. They're nicely sparkly and only moderately annoying to work with. The lovely tin of threads is descending into chaos.

The card is by Moonpig. I gather it's an online service. My husband's aunt and cousin in the UK have used it to send us cards in the US a few times. I'm tempted to see if they have more cute designs like this. Because I totally need more projects...
My contribution to the arts for 2020
Aug. 12th, 2020 07:11 pmClick to embiggen!
![[FO] Su Casa Cross stitch finished object "Su Casa"](https://dianec42.dreamwidth.org/file/320x320/30714.jpg)
I designed it myself, using graph paper and software (Jane Greenoff Gold from around 2002 which I HATE and really need to upgrade to something reasonable, bu I digress). I stitched the house on the right and decided I hated the contrast, so the house on the left is a shade darker. I stitched using an unholy amalgam of Anchor and DMC threads from my stash.
I'm planning on updating the chart to show (DMC versions of) the colors I actually used, then releasing the chart as a PDF. Who knows, maybe Reddit will like it and other people will do it.
A friend of mine want to know if I'm selling them. LOL! I am slow and easily distracted and we'd probably be halfway through the NEXT pandemic before I complete another one. It was fun though.
![[FO] Su Casa Cross stitch finished object "Su Casa"](https://dianec42.dreamwidth.org/file/320x320/30714.jpg)
I designed it myself, using graph paper and software (Jane Greenoff Gold from around 2002 which I HATE and really need to upgrade to something reasonable, bu I digress). I stitched the house on the right and decided I hated the contrast, so the house on the left is a shade darker. I stitched using an unholy amalgam of Anchor and DMC threads from my stash.
I'm planning on updating the chart to show (DMC versions of) the colors I actually used, then releasing the chart as a PDF. Who knows, maybe Reddit will like it and other people will do it.
A friend of mine want to know if I'm selling them. LOL! I am slow and easily distracted and we'd probably be halfway through the NEXT pandemic before I complete another one. It was fun though.
Weird crafting question
Jul. 21st, 2020 11:32 amIn my capacity as know-it-all, I recently stumbled upon something I don't know, and it's driving me nuts.
I asked on Reddit, but apparently I did a terrible job of phrasing the question, so allow me a brief story time here:
Aida cloth and tapestry needles both come in various sizes/scales. For aida cloth, it's 14/16/18 etc; for needles it's 24/26/28. For both, the higher the number the smaller the thing.
And for aida cloth (or evenweave) the numbers actually mean something - 14-count aida has 14 squares to the inch, for example.
Question: What about needle sizes? Do the numbers mean anything in absolute scale? Like, you could fit 28 size-28 needles in a centimeter or something? Or are they just arbitrary and relative?
Please tell me I'm not the only person who wonders about these things! Lie to me if you must.
P.S. I've also posted this over in the cross stitch community, where someone has already answered... not the question I asked. Did I stutter?
I asked on Reddit, but apparently I did a terrible job of phrasing the question, so allow me a brief story time here:
Aida cloth and tapestry needles both come in various sizes/scales. For aida cloth, it's 14/16/18 etc; for needles it's 24/26/28. For both, the higher the number the smaller the thing.
And for aida cloth (or evenweave) the numbers actually mean something - 14-count aida has 14 squares to the inch, for example.
Question: What about needle sizes? Do the numbers mean anything in absolute scale? Like, you could fit 28 size-28 needles in a centimeter or something? Or are they just arbitrary and relative?
Please tell me I'm not the only person who wonders about these things! Lie to me if you must.
P.S. I've also posted this over in the cross stitch community, where someone has already answered... not the question I asked. Did I stutter?